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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.0.0 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Sat, 22 Nov 2008 17:23:24 GMT--><rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:rss="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:admin="http://webns.net/mvcb/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:cc="http://web.resource.org/cc/"><rss:channel rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/"><rss:title>Cease, cows, life is short!</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/</rss:link><rss:description></rss:description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><dc:date>2008-11-22T17:23:24Z</dc:date><admin:generatorAgent rdf:resource="http://www.squarespace.com/">Squarespace Site Server v5.0.0 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</admin:generatorAgent><rss:items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/20/blurb-book.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/19/brava.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/18/cest-beau-la-vie.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/16/worth-flipping-out-over.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/15/knock-knock.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/12/some-of-my-fall-faves.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/9/miss-me-miss-me-now-you-have-to-kiss-me.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/5/flyin-high.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/2/with-bated-breath.html"/><rdf:li rdf:resource="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/10/30/im-with-you-baby.html"/></rdf:Seq></rss:items></rss:channel><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/20/blurb-book.html"><rss:title>Blurb Book</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/20/blurb-book.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-20T14:21:51Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally forgot to tell you guys that I published a book of my Through the Viewfinder ABC's on Blurb. You can preview part of it <a href="http://www.blurb.com/books/405557">here</a> and learn more about ordering your own copy <a href="http://www.blurb.com/bookstore/detail/405557">here</a>. I didn't mark it up because I find Blurb to be a tad pricey. Also, I'm not looking to get rich. I ordered one for myself and it gives you the option to "publish" so I figured, why not?</p>
<p>Anyway, it turned out pretty cool, if I say so myself and I've thouroughly enjoyed my copy. I hope to be inspired to do more in the future.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/19/brava.html"><rss:title>Brava</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/19/brava.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-19T14:11:27Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Natalie has chosen to write a school paper about her trichotillomania. She got up in front of her entire class yesterday to read the introduction (the kids thought it was cool which we both thought was hilarious). I couldn't be prouder of her. She interviewed me for it. Her first question was "<em>How did you feel when you first discovered I had trichotillomania?</em>" I'll tell you how I felt. I felt like I must have done something horribly wrong to make my child want to pull out her hair. I didn't know everything there was to it. I didn't know the neurological aspects. I didn't know it was an impulse control disorder. There was so much I didn't know. Being the self-absorbed fool that I can sometimes be, I immediately thought it was ME and that my perfect, beautiful "golden child" was now "damaged goods." Honest, that's what I thought. Isn't that horrid? It's a hard admission to make. It's hard for hot, angry tears not to well up in my eyes as I write that. It's hard not to feel a momentary resentment toward my stupid former self. Thank God, I didn't spend too much time in that space. I'm not perfect, far from it. But I can and repeatedly strive to make things right. Here we are three years later and Natalie is this gorgeous, bright and spirited brave soul who is the polar opposite of "damaged goods." She's far surpassed her "golden child" status. She's so much more of a treasure than I could have ever imagined she would be and more goodness than I probably deserve, though I'll gladly take it.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/18/cest-beau-la-vie.html"><rss:title>c'est beau la vie</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/18/cest-beau-la-vie.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-18T01:45:28Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today was a good day. No, it was a great day.</p>
<p>- I had coffee with the always lovely and wise <a href="http://journal-to-a-muse.blogspot.com/">Dana</a><br /><a href="http://journal-to-a-muse.blogspot.com/"></a></p>
<p>- I volunteered in Elle's class during Writer's Workshop - helping the kiddos write, edit &amp; publish their stories - they're so CUTE (I do this every Monday now)</p>
<p>- I enjoyed my husband for lunch</p>
<p>- I took a refreshing fall afternoon walk with Charlie Brown</p>
<p>- ...and I received a wonderful package from <a href="http://irenenam.squarespace.com/petitparis/">Irene</a>, <a href="http://flickr.com/photos/ninotchkab/1182781829/in/set-72157601571413297/">my Parisian sister</a>, as I like to call her.</p>
<p>Behold!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/storage/paristreats1108.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1226973811185" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>I should note that the adorable &eacute;milie book is mine (ALL MINE!), the French teen mag is for Natalie, the Babar coloring book is for Anna Sofia and the newspaper is for the entire family to enjoy (Elle kissed it - ha ha ha).</p>
<p>Not shown: Elle's favorite Haribo strawberry gummy candies, a passion for which she developed when Irene gave me some to bring home when I visited last year and Irene's incredibly gorgeous <a href="http://www.irenenam.bigcartel.com/">postcards</a>. Yes, postcards with an "s." I ordered only <a href="http://www.irenenam.bigcartel.com/product/postcard-true-nature">one</a> but somehow a couple more snuck through. These cards are so much more than vehicles of correspondence. These cards are ART. The paper that they're printed on alone is worth drooling over. I hope Irene doesn't mind me gushing about them to you and telling you that you'd be an absolute fool not to order some to keep and gift. They're just THAT gorgeous.</p>
<p>Also, I hope the multiples weren't a mistake (remember, I ordered only one) because I have no intention of being honest and returning the surplus. Shhh, don't tell Irene. :D</p>
<p>Merci, amie cherie. Je t'aime.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/16/worth-flipping-out-over.html"><rss:title>Worth flipping out over</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/16/worth-flipping-out-over.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-16T01:20:29Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">My <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">little</span> cuddle bear. Just look at that <em>schweet wittle face.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/storage/10-12%20085b.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1226798619042" alt="" /></span></span></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/15/knock-knock.html"><rss:title>Knock, Knock</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/15/knock-knock.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-15T00:58:55Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 600px;" src="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/storage/peephole4.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1226712325735" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>My first attempt at peephole photography. Really, it's <em>door viewer</em> photography in my case. You're supposed to do it with an actual door "peephole" and a point and shoot set on macro but since I killed yet another pocket cam, as I like to call them, I made up my very own funny contraption with an oversized door viewer to use with my D80.</p>
<p>All this photography garble may be boring to some but it's very exciting to me and way better than the post I could write about my inability to cope in the face of adversity. Like say when your dog disappears, you get a not-so-fun phone call from your child's teacher and your 3-year old eats half of your last pair of disposable contact lenses rendering you temporarily blind and dizzy.</p>
<p>Yes, yesterday was a very bad day.</p>
<p>Today, however, was positively peachy. The dog was found, the superior parenting unit in this family (Guy) is on top of the bad grade situation with the patience of a Saint and I was able to purchase a new box of contacts to tide me over to my next appointment despite the fact that I'm overdue for my yearly.</p>
<p>But, really. I need to learn how to DEAL. You know, instead of completely checking out, shutting down and crying myself to sleep over my lost puppy, that is. Sigh. I recover nicely but yeah, implied crisis is not my forte. Like, at all. The thought of losing Charlie Brown forever without knowing what happened to him, without any closure other than just letting him go in the figurative sense classifies as crisis for me. I can and have dealt with a lot in life but that? Well, I can barely stand the thought of it. The sadness of that bleak scenario overtook me last night and the suffering was great. It almost made me wish I didn't love that damned dog so much. But, of course, I'm glad I do.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/12/some-of-my-fall-faves.html"><rss:title>some of my fall faves</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/12/some-of-my-fall-faves.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-12T15:15:00Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/storage/fall08faves.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1226458851713" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">(uploaded a bunch of pics to <a href="http://flickr.com/photos/ninotchkab/">flickr</a> last night)</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/9/miss-me-miss-me-now-you-have-to-kiss-me.html"><rss:title>Miss me, Miss me, Now you have to kiss me</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/9/miss-me-miss-me-now-you-have-to-kiss-me.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-09T23:51:59Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="thumbnail-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><a href="javascript:showFullImage('/display/ShowImage?imageUrl=%2Fstorage%2F10-19%20018b.jpg%3F__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION%3D1226277513861',455,450);"><img style="width: 150px;" src="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/storage/thumbnails/13078-2121309-thumbnail.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1226277521101" alt="" /></a></span></span>Go ahead. Click on the thumbnail and look at the <em>preeeeety</em> picture. I shot this one <em>through the viewfinder</em> at the Arboretum sometime in October when Guy &amp; I took the girls. It's a butterfly mid-flight. The shot was seriously overexposed but with a little Photoshop magic, :::darken, darken, darken:::, <em>voila!</em>, art. Or something like it.</p>
<p>So, October turned out to be super busy alright, but not for the reasons I originally thought. I ended up dropping one class (which was a brilliant move in hindsight) and then wound up spending my Anna-free weekdays volunteering,&nbsp; lunching with Guysito (which is truly my favorite pastime because it feels like <em>vay-cay-shun</em> -- sappy, yes, but true), reading The Twilight Saga at Natalie's urging (loved it!) and dutifully failing the Biology course I'm taking. I haven't officially failed yet but I'm not too hopeful for a passing grade on this one, guys. As Stuart Smalley would say, <em>and that's OK, because I'm good enough, I'm smart enough and doggone it, people like me...</em> Seriously, I've finally met a course I don't like. I was equally doubtful and optimistic that it would and would never happen but sadly, it has. I LOVE some of the people I've met in Lab, though and that alone is worth the tuition. I love awesome people.</p>
<p>Of note:</p>
<p>- Halloween was lovely. I did everything I do, including the school treats and parties and pumpkin carving and roasting pumpkin seeds. However, Halloween night was almost eerily quiet. My sister and I reminisced about how Halloween night used to seem like a parade of costumes in the neighborhood streets. Sad that it is no longer. I blame the churches with their goddamned "Harvest Festivals" and "Trunk or Treats." Where's the fun in that? Halloween is just not the same without pennies, apples and a couple of rusty razor blades in your treat bag. Such a pity. Freaking Holy rollers have to go and ruin everything. (joke!)</p>
<p>- The Twilight Saga. (insert sing-songy <em>Awesome!</em> here) Probably part of the reason I'm flunking but so worth it. I am a Literary major after all (this month) and I'm not greedy with my GPA. You know how I'm a major proponent of "good enough" and a fair-weather <em>everything</em>. So bring on the good books! And the bad grades! ha ha ha Stephenie Meyer spins a good yarn. I'm seriously impressed and do encourage you all to check the books out, if you haven't already. Yummy, brain candy. <em>fo' shizzle</em></p>
<p>- OBAMA. Yes! Still so jazzed about that one. Last night, I made good on my promise to Elle to throw an Obama party and, quaint as it was (just us &amp; Guy's Mom), it was lovely. Pizza, cupcakes &amp; ice cream all around! And in a bit of innocent child un-political correctness, Elle kept calling the chocolate cupcakes&nbsp; "Obama cupcakes" and the&nbsp; white cake ones "McCain cupcakes." Is that not HILAIR? I thought so. Just like the vote, the chocolate ones were the most popular. So, there you go. A little confectionary-political humor.</p>
<p>That's about it from here. I've spent most of the weekend outside with the <em>cheeldren</em>. ALL four of them (Charlie included). We had gorgeous weather and well, you know there's nowhere I'd rather be than tossing a football with my dainty girls and Charlie as monkey-in-the-middle. Especially with Anna Sofia dressed up as various princesses and fairies.&nbsp; Quite the scene to an outsider, I'm sure. ;) Natalie has a seriously good arm, by the way. Guy taught her how to throw. We also blew bubbles, kicked around a soccer ball, swung, did gymnastics and the girls danced &amp; lip synched to iTunes playing on the laptop. It was every bit as wonderful as it sounds. Wouldn't it be nice if every weekend were equally as obligation-free and absolutely sublime? Yes, it would.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/5/flyin-high.html"><rss:title>Flyin' High</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/5/flyin-high.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-05T13:43:44Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/storage/11-5-08b.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1225892679681" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p>The people have spoken. What a wonderful day in history. I'm most excited for my children. That they get to grow up in a world where HOPE is alive means the world to me. Truly, more than words can say.</p>
<p>Edited to add: <a href="http://narahvalenska.blogspot.com/2008/11/turn-your-lights-on.html">Lights on for Obama</a>!</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/2/with-bated-breath.html"><rss:title>With bated breath</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/11/2/with-bated-breath.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-11-02T14:28:41Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I need you to do me a favor: VOTE on Tuesday if you haven't already. Take a friend or two or twenty with you. Call on everyone you know and ask them to do the same. This will likely be the most important election of our lifetime. Let's not waste this opportunity.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/10/30/im-with-you-baby.html"><rss:title>I'm with you, Baby.</rss:title><rss:link>http://ninotchka.squarespace.com/cease-cows-life-is-short/2008/10/30/im-with-you-baby.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Ninotchka B.</dc:creator><dc:date>2008-10-30T14:56:39Z</dc:date><dc:subject></dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;"><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/_EgMXZ1UFR8&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/_EgMXZ1UFR8&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>
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<p>(Be sure to turn on your volume)</p>

<p>Thanks, Lulu! </p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item></rdf:RDF>